FROM DREAM TO REALITY

 

Dreams are an essential part of life. If you are on a journey without a specific destination, you will wander aimlessly. To give your journey purpose, you must have a clear and meaningful dream.

Some people dream too small, limiting their ambitions to earning a fixed salary just to cover basic needs. But that is mere survival, not a dream. A true dream should be bigger than yourself—something that drives you to grow, evolve, and create a lasting impact.

One challenge people face is the fear of sharing their dreams with others. Often, they are met with ridicule or discouragement. So, be mindful of whom you confide in. Share your dreams only with those who will support and uplift you, not those who will belittle your aspirations. And remember, one dream is never enough—once you achieve one, set another, and keep striving.

History is filled with remarkable individuals who succeeded not because of their wealth or resources, but because of their unwavering determination and vision. They didn’t dwell on what they lacked; instead, they focused on what they could contribute to their people, their nation, and the world.

Consider the example of Allama Iqbal. His dream of a separate homeland for Muslims seemed impossible at first, but his determination, patience, and persistence turned it into reality. He endured criticism and challenges, yet he remained steadfast in his vision. This is the power of dreams backed by unwavering faith and effort.

Achieving your dreams requires persistence, patience, and trust in Allah. True success comes not from immediate results but from consistent effort and belief in your vision.

Don't just follow the examples of others—become the example that inspires others.

Dream big, take action, and embark on a journey that leads to greatness.

By dreaming big, you can become the passenger of a grand journey.

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By Khadija Tahira

The Power of Introversion: Embracing the Quiet Strength

In a world where extroversion is often celebrated, introverts are frequently misunderstood. They're labeled as shy, socially awkward, or even antisocial. But nothing could be further from the truth. Introverts possess a unique set of qualities that make them incredibly valuable to society.

What is Introversion?

Introversion is a personality trait characterized by a preference for quiet, solo activities, and deeper conversations. Introverts recharge their energy by being alone, whereas extroverts thrive in social settings.

The Strengths of Introverts

1. Deep Thinkers: Introverts are known for their analytical minds, often spending hours contemplating complex issues.

2. Active Listeners: Their tendency to listen more than speak allows them to absorb and process information more effectively.

3. Creative Geniuses: Introverts' solitude fosters innovation, creativity, and problem-solving skills.

4. Loyal Friends: Once you've earned an introvert's trust, they'll stand by you through thick and thin.

5. Observant: Introverts notice details others might miss, making them perceptive and empathetic.

Debunking the Myths

1. Introverts aren't shy: They simply prefer meaningful interactions over superficial small talk.

2. Introverts aren't antisocial: They value relationships, just on their own terms.

3. Introverts aren't weak: Their quiet strength is often underestimated.

Embracing Introversion

In today's fast-paced, extrovert-centric world, it's essential to recognize and appreciate the value of introverts.

- Create space for solo work and reflection

- Encourage deep conversations and active listening

- Celebrate creative contributions

- Respect boundaries and preferences

By embracing introversion, we can:

- Foster a more balanced and inclusive society

- Tap into the unique strengths of introverts

- Encourage authenticity and self-expression

In conclusion, introverts are not weaknesses to be overcome, but strengths to be celebrated. Let's shift our perspective and appreciate the quiet power of introversion.

Share your thoughts:

Are you an introvert or know someone who is? How do you think society can better support introverts?

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THE REAL PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS

What is your life going to mean? What is the basic purpose of your life? These are questions that frequently arise in our minds. If your life is just one video game after another, what are you pursuing? Who cares if you get trophies on that video game? Who cares! You know who cares how many push-ups you can do? Who cares! Let me tell you one thing: Allah will give you happiness when you have a real pursuit, then your life means something, and when your life means something, it makes you happy. When you don't have a pursuit, you never find meaning in your life, and that's why you're never happy. No matter how much music you listen to or how much partying you do, you're just never happy, never satisfied, always bored, and always unhappy with yourself. You young people have to be people of incredible pursuit, as Allah says, 'Their efforts and pursuit will soon be seen.

Let me tell you something. When you show somebody your resume, you mention that you graduated from a school, worked here and there, and achieved this and that. But what do you put on your resume? The results! The results are the pursuits, but you don't put on your resume how hard you worked to finish that project.

 Sometimes, it just happens that you put in a lot of effort but don't pass, or you put an incredible amount of effort into a project and it fails, or you don't get the grade you deserve or want. As human beings, we judge each other based on results; we don't care how much effort you made if you didn't deliver the results. You didn't pass the project, so you're fired!

 But Allah on Judgment Day is not looking at your report card based on results; Allah is looking at your report card based on the efforts you made. No other human being can see my efforts, and I can't see yours, and you can't see mine; only Allah sees efforts. All we see are results; we are the people of results. Allah is the Judge of efforts. Subhanallah! 

Nobody will appreciate your efforts except Allah, so never underestimate your efforts because other people underestimate them. 

While achieving your goals, you should be persistent, work with patience, and keep tawakkul in Allah; He is the One who sees efforts, not results. 

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The Power of Effective Goal Setting

Introduction :

Setting goals is a powerful way to take control of your life and achieve success. Goals give you direction, motivation, and a sense of purpose. Without clear goals, you may feel lost, unfulfilled, and unsure of how to move forward. In this blog, we'll explore the importance of goal setting, how to set effective goals, and provide tips to help you achieve your objectives.

The Importance of Goal Setting:

Why Goals Matter:

- Motivation: Goals inspire and motivate you to take action.

- Accountability: Goals help you track progress and stay accountable.

- Confidence: Achieving goals builds confidence and self-belief.

How to Set Effective Goals:

SMART Goal Framework;

- Specific: Clearly define your goal.

- Measurable: Quantify your goal for progress tracking.

- Achievable: Ensure your goal is realistic and attainable.

- Relevant: Align your goal with your values and needs.

- Time-bound: Set a deadline for achieving your goal.

*Additional Tips for Successful Goal Setting*

- Write it down

*: Put your goals in writing to make them concrete.

- Break it down

: Divide large goals into smaller, manageable tasks.

- Create an action plan

: Identify steps needed to achieve your goal.

- Track progress

: Regularly monitor your progress and adjust as needed.

- Stay flexible

: Be open to adjusting your goals as circumstances change.

Overcoming Obstacles and Staying Motivated

Common Challenges:

- Procrastination

: Break tasks into smaller, manageable chunks.

- Self-doubt

: Focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

- Distractions

: Create a conducive environment for goal pursuit.

Conclusion: 

Effective goal setting is a powerful tool for achieving success and realizing your potential. By understanding the importance of goal setting, using the SMART goal framework, and following additional tips, you'll be well on your way to achieving your objectives. Remember to stay flexible, overcome obstacles, and celebrate your progress along the way!

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خوابوں سے سچائی تک کا سفر

یہ خواب ہی تو ہیں جو ہمیں اپنا مقصد دیتے ہیں ،ہاں اگر تم بڑی منزِل کے مسافر بننا چاہتے ہو تو تمہاری سوچ ،تمہاری ہمت سے بڑھ کر ہونی چاہیے ہے ،اگر تمہاری زندگی میں بڑ ے خواب نہیں ہیں تم کبھی بھی شاہین کی طرح بلند پرواز نہیں رکھ سکتے ۔تبھی تو اقبال نے شاہین کی مثال دی :

اے اقبال تو شاہین کی مثال دیتا ہے" 

"تیرا دل شاہین ہے تبھی تو اقبال بنا ہے۔ 

اگر تمہارے خواب ہیں تو وہ تم سے بڑے ہونے چاہیے ہے ۔سب سے بڑا مسئلہ جب آپ خواب رکھتے ہو درپیش آتا ہے کہ لوگ آپکا مذاق اڑاتے ہیں ،اور کہتے ہیں کہ یہ تو بس خیالی دنیا میں گُم رہتا ہے ،اپنے خوابوں کو اپنے والدین کے علاوہ کسی کو نہ بتائیں،بس خاموشی سے اپنے خوابوں کو پورا کرنے میں مگن رہیں ،اور یاد رکھنا ایک وقت ایسا بھی کہ جو لوگ تمہار ا مذاق اڑاتے تھے ایک دِن تمہارے استقبال میں تالیاں بجائیں گئیں ۔ہماری زندگی صرف ایک خواب تک محدود نہیں ہونی چاہیئے ،بلکہ ہماری زندگی خوابوں  سے بھری پڑی ہونی چاہیئے ،اگر ایک خواب کو پورا کر لو تو دوسرے کو پانے کی کوشش جاری کردیجئے ۔آپ کی زندگی کبھی بھی ایک جگہ رکنی بھی نہیں چاہئے ہے ۔کیونکہ یاد رکھنا چلتے رہنے کا نام ہی زندگی ہے ،جو رک جاتا ہے وہ کبھی بھی آگے نہیں بڑھ پا تا ۔

اگر ہم دنیا کی سب سے کامیاب اور عزت دار لوگوں کی زندگیوں کا مطالعہ کریں تو معلوم ہوتا ہے کہ اُن کے پاس کوئی دولت،کوئی شہرت ،کوئی طاقت نہیں تھی بس ایک چیز تھی ان میں وہ تھے بس بڑے خواب ۔ایسی شخصیات کی ذات صرف اپنی ذات تک محدود نہیں تھیں بس اُنکے اندر انسانیت کے لیے کچھ کرنے کا جذبہ تھا ۔اجّ اگر مثال لینی ہے تو ایدھی کی لو ،نہ اتنی دولت تھی ،نہ اتنی شہرت تھی ،بس انسانیت کے لئے کچھ کرنے کا جذبہ تھا ،اجّ اگر دنیا سے رخصت ہوئے ہیں تو اکیس توپوں کی سلامی سے گئے ہیں ،لوگو کے دلوں میں بس کر گئیں ہیں ،مثال لینی ہے تو قائد اعظم کی لو جنہوں میں مسلمانوں کو الگ وطن دلوایا ،یہ ہوتا ہے انسانیت کے لئے کچھ کرنے کہ جذبہ ۔جانتے ہیں فرق   کیا ہے ؟ہم سب لوگو کے خواب صرف اپنی ذات تک محدود  ہیں ،خواب بڑے ہوتے بھی ہیں تو نیت صرف پیسہ کمانے کی ہوتی ہے ،کوئی  شہرت کمانے کی نیت سے بڑے خواب  رکھتاہے ،ہیں میں یہ نہیں کہہ رہی کہ آپ زندگی بھر پیسہ نہ کمائیں ،شہرت نہ  کمائیں،کمائیں اور حاصل کریں یہ آ پ کا جائزہ حق ہے ۔  ہاں بس دل میں ہے یہ ضرور نیت کریں کہ اگر رب نے مجھے اس قابل کیا تو میں ضرور انسانیت کی خدمت کروں گا ،یقین کریں رب آپ کے راستے کھول دے گا ۔اپنے خوابوں کو پورا کرنے کے سفر میں صبر،استقامت اور اللہ پر توکل رکھنا ،کیونکہ یہ رب ہی تو ہےجو تمہاری تڑپ ،تمہاری محنت کو دیکھتا ہے ،باقی یہ دنیا تو صرف نتیجہ دیکھتی ہے ۔

بلند ہوگئی تیری سوچ 

بلند ہوگئی تیری منزل 

بلند ہو گئی تیری پرواز 

کیونکہ تو ہے اِک بڑی منزل کا مسافر و

بڑی منزل کے مسافر کبھی چھوٹا دل نہیں رکھتے 

وہ تھکتے نہیں ،گرتے نہیں ،جھکتے نہیں ،زندہ رہتے ہیں ۔ 

خدیجہ طاہرہ ۔

  

HOW TO STAY MOTIVATED ALL THE TIME ?

 How to stay motivated all the time ?

Motivation is what that inspire you to move forward but the problem is that when a difficult situation come in our life we totally lose hope, so the question arises that how to stay motivated all the time ?

 There are three IMPORTANT sources ,with the help of them we can stay motivated all the time  situation :

1) DREAM 

2) COMPANY

3)FAITH (EMAN ) 

1)DREAM :.

 Dream is what that motivate you to move forward , if your dream is big even in a bad situation your dream will help you to overcome any bad  situation ,our targets our goal should be clear that we automatically become focused.But when your goal will be bigger than your self you don't  even care what is happening around me you are just focused towards your dream . Your destination is your dream . 

Do you know how dreams motivate us ? 

How bigger is your dream , your efforts will be big , your thinking will be big , your results will be big 

If you think positive your life will be in a positive way 

If you think negative your life will be in a negative way 

So that's how you have to determine which way you have to choose .

Many of us has many dreams but their dreams are too small for instance they just think about that my dream is just to do a job that will give him 15000 to 20000 of salary , but I didn't consider it as a dream this is what every person does to live .

So your dream should be bigger than yourself 😉.

3) COMPANY : 

Your company determine what you are going to achieve in your life and sometimes it's a luck  that some people find good friends that keeps you motivated all the time, it can also be your Mentors ,your parents that  inspires you. your battery got charge when you sit with this type of PEOPLES and these people are too less in this world who motivates you  in a difficult situation . So stay in search of these type of people who are good for you .

FAITH (eman ): 

Your faith come with the reflection of your past, if you think what I am before 10 years and what changes had become in your life  , you will be shocked to see that  I am in a better position and the things I lost  in the past are better from me even those  thing that I got   at that time  I will not be able to  become at this stage, So always remember everything happens for a reason . 

When you think about past you eman will automatically be strong that I my present is better than past alhumdullilah,

 Rab is a great planner .

Don't give the examples of other become an example that people give example of you  .

Become an inspiration 

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FOCUS

 FOCUS ,WHAT IS FOCUS ,AND HOW TO DO FOCUS ?

THERE ARE MANY DEFINITIONS OF WORD FOCUS AND MANY PEOPLES HAS DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW ABOUT THE WORD FOCUS  . ALMOST MANY STUDENTS HAS MANY COMPLAIN THAT THEY ARE DON'T ABLE TO DO FOCUS ON THEIR STUDIES BECAUSE OF MANY DISTRACTIONS ESPECIALLY MOBILE PHONES , SOCIAL MEDIA  .

I HAVE SEEN SOME LECTURES  ABOUT THE WORD FOCUS AND I SEE THAT THEY HAVE ALMOST ONE POINT OF VIEW THAT BY DOING MEDITATION AND BY DOING YOGA YOU CAN INCREASE FOCUS AND SOME PEOPLE ALSO SAYS THAT BY FOCUSING ON ONE POINT WITHOUT BLINKING YOUR EYE YOU CAN INCREASE THE POWER OF FOCUS BUT ACCORDING TO MY OBSERVATION THE DEFINITION OF FOCUS IS DIFFERENT LET'S UNDERSTAND IT BY AN EXAMPLE LIKE CONSIDER THAT YOU ARE WATCHING FILM OR YOUR FAVORITE DRAMA YOU ARE FULLY FOCUSED ON THAT DRAMA EVEN YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS HAPPENING AROUND ME .THE THING THAT I WANT TO SAY THAT YOU ARE FULLY FOCUSED BECAUSE YOU LIKE IT .THE THINGS THAT YOU LIKE YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY FOCUSED ON THAT THING BY SEEING FILM EVEN YOU CAN NOT LISTEN THE VOICE OF YOUR ANY FAMILY MEMBERS BECAUSE YOU ARE FULLY  FOCUSED ON THAT FILM EVEN YOU CAN HEAR BUT YOU IGNORE THAT VOICE  .

THE STUDENTS WHO COMPLAIN THAT THEY ARE NOT FOCUSING ON THEIR STUDIES THE REASON IS NOT THE DISTRACTIONS AROUND THEM BUT THE REASON IS THAT WE MAKE THIS STUDIES SOO MUCH DIFFICULT IN OUR MIND THAT THE SINGLE DISTRACTION CAN DISTRUB MY STUDIES .IT'S JUST ALL THE GAME OF YOUR MIND YOUR THOUGHTS  . YOUR MIND IS LIKE A MAGNETIC FIELD IF YOU THINK THAT CHEM IS DIFFICULT SUBJECT YOUR MIND WILL GIVE YOU REASONS THAT WHY THIS IS DIFFICULT AND AUTOMATICALLY CHEM WILL BECOME DIFFICULT FOR YOU

IF YOU THINK POSITIVE YOUR LIFE WILL BE IN A POSITIVE WAY 

IF YOU THINK NEGATIVE YOUR LIFE WILL BE IN A NEGATIVE WAY

WHAT YOU THINK YOU BECOME 

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THIS SENTENCE IT HAS A VERY DEEP MEANING 

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KHADIJA TAHIRA